Family Feud


I love my family to death, but they can be a nightmare sometimes.  I’m afraid this will cause drama on my wedding day this summer.  How can I prevent sticky situations without turning into the evil daughter?

There is wedding stress….and then there is mom stress... which we all know can be a completely different story.  On your wedding day, it might feel like your 16 again fighting with your mom about taking a car ride with the boy-next-door.  She might be the controlling type, too, and want everything to be just like it was on her wedding day.  So before the drama even begins, take your mom aside and remind her it’s your day.  Also, remind her that of course you need and would love her help, but only with things you ask for.  You’ll be stressing out enough for the both of you when your maid of honor is running late…very late, so avoid the unneeded anxiety with the ones your love. 

Another problem area may be someone like your sister or cousin.  When she starts complaining about how unnatural your up-do is, tell her you can handle your hair, and direct her to focusing on the other bridesmaids’ hair styles.  If you give her a few other tasks, she will leave you alone with some moments to breathe. 

Dads are usually able to keep their cool during events like this, but when the show is running late, he may get a little testy.  If you aren’t already aware, your dad may be sure to remind you every five minutes that you are getting closer and closer to the walk down the aisle; you’ll be ready to pull your veil right out.  Think how he might be feeling, though.  He is most likely a little nervous for his big debut, and also, his little girl is officially all grown up.  Remember that your family is going to be uptight because of the wedding stress, but also, because they aren’t quite ready to let you go.  Just be happy you have your loving family to support you, and your big day will run quite smoothly!