Problem Guests

Some of my fiance's friends can get a little rowdy, and I'm afraid after one too many drinks, a problem can arise.  How do I handle any outbursts without seeming rude?

Keep in mind, that it is YOUR big day, and if you have to seem rude, then so be it.  You will have enough stress as it, and you don't need to worry about others who may sabotage your wedding without intending to. If you're worried, casually bring up this issue with your fiance.  Ask him to tell his guys to behave because you know they can have a little too much fun.  Slip in that you'll tell your girls the same thing, and he won't think you're directing the topic only at him.  If you're still a little concerned, make a lighthearted joke when his friends are around, and hopefully they'll take the hint.  

If an incident does occur at your wedding, you shouldn't have to be the one to deal with it.  You should be showing off on the dance floor with your bridesmaids while your new husband ushers them away.  Don't be too nervous that something like a fight might break out because chances are everyone will have the time of their life.  You'll forget you were stressed about it in no time.  

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