To Pet or Not to Pet?

Is it practical to have my adorable and beloved dog in my wedding or will guests be secretly judging me for a childish decision?

Here at CYE, we can’t say no to a cute face.  Personally, if the love of my life (my Papillion named Bijou) is still alive on my wedding day, she will be attending of course.  But there are some things you must keep in mind if you want your dog, cat, or even pig (yes, this has happened) at your ceremony.  There would be nothing worse than your groom reciting his loving vows and then suddenly being interrupted by your Chihuahua barking for his life at the squirrel running up a nearby tree.  So have an honest conversation with yourself.  If there is even the slightest chance that Spot may suddenly try to sprint after the flower girl, leave him at home.  Your wedding day will be stressful enough, and no one will criticize you for wanting it to be as perfect as can be.  People love animals, though, so when your guests see your dad walking you down the aisle with leash in hand, the awe-factor will be out of this world.  Keep in mind that weddings aren’t as serious these days.  Of course the idea itself is very serious, but young people are making their weddings memorable these days with fun ideas.  I’m sure many of you have seen YouTube videos of the bridesmaids and groomsmen dancing down the aisle.  This shows that you can have fun with it, and maybe when your Great Dane knocks down your 5 year old nephew, the ring-bearer, people will roar with laughter.  The key to a great wedding is for it to be unique to you and your groom…if it makes you happy, it will make everyone happy.  

Being the Best Bridesmaid You Can Be!

One of my best friends just asked me to be one of her bridesmaids, and I’m super excited!  I have to admit I’m a little worried, though, because I’ve never been one before.  Give me the Bridesmaid 101, please!

If you’ve seen the recent movie Bridesmaids¸ you may be thinking the bridesmaid task is a little daunting.  Don’t get us wrong, here at CYE we are a big fan of the comedy, but it shows that being a bridesmaid isn’t always fun and games and may require a little work on your part. 

The work isn’t supposed to be taxing, though, but instead, a great time.  For example: figuring out the wedding dress and the bridesmaids dresses is any girl’s dream, so give your opinion!  Let her know what color schemes work and what heels are just plain ugly.  But if it’s breaking your bank to buy the bridesmaids dress, the designer bangles, and a French manicure on top of it alll, ask her to consider some alternatives.  I guarantee the other bridesmaids will be happy someone spoke up.  And don’t be afraid to say no in general.  You have your own relationships, work, and family that need your attention, as well.  Of course your friend is one of your many priorities, but if she requests a 6 a.m. conference call about the seating arrangement, you can feel free to sit that one out.  Also, keep in mind that you can always hire a wedding planning company (like CYE of course!) to designate some of the bigger tasks, too.  That’s our job!  We know you have your own to worry about.  Also, your friend is going to have a lot of stress to deal with, which is where you come into play.  You need to be the relaxed one...the one who always has it together (even if you don't feel that way, it's okay!).  It will give your friend the reassurance she needs.  You should be the friend she can call at 3 a.m. on the day of her wedding, who can calm her down.  Also, be the wild and crazy friend, who she can count on to give her the best bachelorette party.  Bring out a different side of her before the big day!  That all being said, good luck and don't forget to have fun!  

Speaking in public is hard enough as it is, but when it's in front of people you know, the bar is raised.  Don't fret, though!  Completely Yours Events has you covered on the do's and don't's of wedding toasts!

I have to give a toast at my best friend’s wedding…Help!

           

Short and sweet is the key!  Keep it simple, and speak from the heart.  Also, don’t bring up your friend’s past…meaning past hookups or embarrassing moments.  You may think the time when your friend fell down the stairs at your wedding after one too many drinks is hysterical, but a crowd of people may not understand the inside joke.  Your friend will also probably not appreciate the humor.  People often resort to humor or the past when they don’t know what to say, so if you have to write your toast down, please do!  No one will think anything of it!  If you try too hard to be funny or serious, it’ll show; instead, be yourself.  This advice can apply to any aspect of your life, as well!  

Need fashion advice?!  Completely Yours Events has you covered this Friday right before you go out for the weekend!

I can’t afford to buy a dress for my friend’s upcoming wedding that will only be a one-time hit.  What kind of dress is not only appropriate for a wedding but also one that my boyfriend would love to see on date night? 

We know how a tight budget feels, and this is a favorite here at Completely Yours Events!  What’s great about this dress is that the length makes it very appropriate for a wedding or other bigger event, but at the same time, it is not too fancy.  The plunging neckline is sexy, yet sophisticated, and we are sure your boyfriend would approve, especially pared with a pretty pair of heels or wedges!  The dress also comes in four colors, so whether you’re looking for a deep color for winter, or a flirty color for summer, J. Crew has you covered.  Did we mention it’s also on sale?!

Kira Dress in Silk Organza

http://www.jcrew.com/womens_category/weddingsandparties/bridesmaidpartydresses/PRDOVR~66794/99102638501/ENE~1+2+3+22+4294967294+20~60~~20+17+4294967097~15~~~~~~~/66794.jsp?srcCode=AFFI00001&siteId=J84DHJLQkR4-yj3Ghb3pBz0mnVxHddCA9A

This Mini Tulip dress is another piece we love, and it is perfect for a late spring or early summer wedding!  It is more casual, but the sophisticated neckline pairs well with the shorter length making it appropriate for an engagement party, work, or a date.  The tulip pattern is sure to catch anyone’s eye, and the fluttery sleeve makes it a little different.  With the interchanging of a cute clutch and sandals or heels, this dress can go from day to night time in a hurry!

ASOS Mini Tulip Dress

http://us.asos.com/ASOS-Mini-Tulip-Dress-With-Flute-SleevesIn-Pastel-Print/y3pq1/?iid=2203371&MID=35719&affid=2135&WT.tsrc=Affiliate&siteID=J84DHJLQkR4-1wzxfTn4TJ7b6LdBPZtywg&r=2&mporgp=L1Byb2Qv

Happy June 1st!  With wedding season kicking into full gear, Completely Yours Events knows you probably have a few questions about your wedding, your best friend's wedding, or weddings in general.  With that being said, this month Completely Yours Events’ is offering you our Wedding Etiquette 101 every Friday!

My wedding is quickly approaching and the R.S.V.P. date has passed.  Is it okay to call the guests who have to yet to respond?

Of course!  Call as soon as you can reach a phone.  It is completely understandable to need to know this piece of information seeing as it affects a lot about your wedding, like how many favors to order and how much food you will need.  Start off by asking them if they have received your invitation, and throughout the conversation, try not to let your annoyance show through.  That being said, make sure you always promptly R.S.V.P. to invitation of any kind.  When planning a wedding or any sort of event, we know response tardiness is frowned upon.  Also, if you are using a wedding planning or other service for your wedding (like Completely Yours Events!), they can handle the guests who have and have not responded to your invitation, so you'll never have to break a sweat!